Under his breath you barely hear these words, “No one likes to fail…I don’t want to fail.” “You’re right…no one likes to fail, but no matter what any of us guys do we will all do exactly that.” A guy says from behind his saddened, but stern eyes.He continues to convey how he feels that no matter how hard a guy tries, it won’t be good enough in the end any how.Another guy speaks up and points out that his main reason for not being active in the dating scene was that he felt he needed to be financially set before he could seriously commit to a woman.He begins to express how his parents struggled financially and how it put a lot of stress on their marriage. If he could become financially secure, then he would feel much more at ease about being with a woman. ” After the money talk subsided a man blurted out, “I don’t date simply because I’m not any good at it!his dry sense of humor kills you, and dang those eyes!And then you learn that the same year you graduated college, he was wrapping up his freshman year—of high school.The no itself was hard for him to take, because he really did care for this girl, but what happened is that this girl went back and told all of her friends and they began to review all of his strengths and weaknesses.By the time it was over not only did all of her friends know, but their friends knew and their friends' brothers knew that he asked, she said no, and that he was not tall enough for the average girl to really honestly consider.
Due to the embarrassment and rejection he would simply rather not go through that again.Why endure the heartache and waste his and some poor girl's time by starting something that most likely wouldn’t work out anyway?After his initial premise for singlehood ended, he got quiet.After enduring several comments on sports, cars, and food, you begin to think this is a lost cause. In the volley of verbal discussion you are quite surprised to find out that a lot of thought is put into this subject, considering the fact that it often seems that guys do not talk about relationships, let alone pursue them. In fact, if what these guys say is true, emotions are just not enough.A guy may be interested in a girl and still do and say nothing. Because guys believe there are more factors to consider than feelings. One of the guys explains a time when he was bold enough to ask a girl out, but she said no.