The next week when we talked again he reported that he had met a lovely young woman. Here's a vital tip though: When you are out and about, think of yourself as the shopper, not the shoppee.Look around to identify potentially interesting folks and take action to get to know them.A second tip: Ask friends to think about anyone they know who could be a good match.Most matches are made by being “fixed up,” the same as most jobs are found by referral by a friend.
Feeling that your own life is gratifying and worthwhile is important for your own satisfaction, and also makes you more attractive as a potential partner for someone else. Am I unclear about the kind of partner I am looking for?While having not yet found your match says NOTHING about how good a person you are, taking a fresh look at what's working and what's not may help to speed up your progress toward your goal. Some singles, though by no means all, have communication habits and/or skill-deficits that have been off-putting to potential partners. Still others need to rethink their courting strategy to come up with a plan of action that will put them in contact with more of their kind of folks. A answer to any questions on the following quiz could merit taking a further look at this dimension and rectifying what you see. Voice: Is my voice is louder (or softer) than other people’s?The following quiz lists twenty factors that can affect spouse-finding. Do I speak more rapidly, or slowly with pauses between words?Fromm said that it's best to look for "someone who is like what you like best about yourself." If you are gentle, bookish and short, and you treasure these attributes about yourself, seek someone gentle, bookish and short.If you like the facts that you are Irish Catholic, fun-loving, and out-going, look for the same.