Pros and cons of dating older guys

If you feel the same way as I do, most relationships you’ll have will be with younger women (under age 33 or so) simply because most women over 33 won’t ever get to the point of having a relationship you, because they’ll insist on making you wait too long for sex, causing you to next them and go have sex with the 26 year-old around the corner who make you wait. In terms of keeping a reliable schedule for meets and dates, younger women are difficult, and VYW are extremely difficult.Of course you could follow a more traditional, beta male type of dating, where you have five or more dates before you have sex (ugh, kill me), and thus get more relationships with older women, but getting to sex slowly like that isn’t what this blog or my books are about. Older women, even those who are single mothers, tend to be more reliable and less flaky.In other words, a 18 year-old is going to be easy during pickup/dating phase and an absolute cluster fuck during the long-term relationship phase, whereas a 28 year-old is going to be less easy during pickup/dating and less difficult during the relationship phase. They are absolute nightmares in the pickup/dating phases, but if you are somehow able to persevere, put up with all the ASD, bullshit, woman logic, and ridiculous demands (and in the case of the fast sex model, get very lucky with sex that occurs relatively quickly), then ongoing relationships tend to be easier and more reliable with these women.The problem is the words I personally don’t like waiting more than two or three dates with zero sex, since I don’t see the point, and there are too many pretty women in the world who are perfectly happy having sex on date two.

There’s a light and eagerness in younger women’s eyes during sex that frankly, most older women don’t have.

It’s also true that there are some older women who will absolutely blow your mind and body during sex.

Yet overall, I have to say that younger women tend to be better here.

A third category, Very Young Women or VYW are women under the age of 23.

For purposes of this article, when I say “younger,” I’m talking about women age 18-32, and when I say “older,” I’m talking about women 33 , unless otherwise stated. In both cases, these women are unusual exceptions to the rule. I am not interested in discussing the unusual exceptions to the rule (other than acknowledging that they do indeed exist) and I will ignore any comments complaining that I’m generalizing (because I am) and that there are rare, unusual exceptions out there (duh, I know). Everything I say is within the context of the fast sex dating model I practice and teach, which is represented here (click to zoom): In this model, there are three separate phases: the pickup phase (getting a woman to agree to meet with you one-on-one), the dating phase (getting to sex as fast as possible, ideally on the second date/meet within 3-4 hours of total face time), and the relationship management phase (ongoing sex via a casual or serious relationship, either of which are nonmonogamous).

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