Are you willing to live with that issue, habit, career, etc. Many falsely believe marriage will also change things however, if we do not get a hold of sin, lack of commitment, bad habits etc. Sex is a life uniting act, through sex a man and woman become one flesh. He says to flee, meaning to “run like hell” away from sexual sin because sexual sin is sin against your own body.
before we get married; marriage will only magnify those issues. God does not want His children to become one with those whom are not their life partner. We need to trust that God knows what’s best for us, and his prohibitions are to protect us.
Guarding your heart is not about preventing heartache or never letting others get too close; but is all about tending to the health of your soul.Seeking God first insures that relationships and the desire to be married does not become an idol to us.The Bible clearly states that when we seek God first and His righteousness, all things will be added to us.Within men, the hormone called dopamine is released, which is the “pleasure hormone” and can be very addictive.This is why so many men suffer from sexual addictions; in the US 12 million people suffer from sexual additions.